In case of separation, it is essential to perform a rigorous assessment to assess the behavior of both spouses: the goal is to determine if the unfaithfulness of one of the two is relevant for the purpose of the debit of the divorce, if it represents the cause or the concausa. In these cases, it is good to rely on professionals to obtain valid tests, so as not to make mistakes such as:
Underestimate the problem, particularly if you have significant assets
Follow the advice of his friend sapientone who, even if he does not understand the Law, nor the Family Law, dispenses tips punctually wrong
Improvise detective of the series: "I go or I send my friend". An often fatal mistake that will create not a few problems for the next intervention of the professional, so that you know that: the evidence often gathered at the menopeggio by his friend are almost never admitted in court. There is a real possibility that you commit some criminal offense without even realizing it. An investigation is not a joke, it must be conducted following certain investigative techniques and legal rules (which the client ignores). You are emotionally involved in the events and the "do it yourself" always makes the situation worse
Relying on the wrong legal. Often, people rely on a lawyer pointed out by some acquaintance, while it is essential to rely on a lawyer specializing in Family Law, otherwise the documentation we produced could be used incorrectly and be useless
Being convinced that your partner chooses for a "quiet" separation, asking for the right. NOTHING MORE FALSE! In 90% of cases you end up waging war, and this is because your partner, like you, will be surrounded by people who will give advice on their rights, (Attorney in the first place), so at the beginning may also appear to be condescending and without particular requests but then it will change attitude.